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		<title>Sex and Fear, Finish that Inventory!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fear, a damaging and corroding thread that can weave its way into and take over our lives, causes inordinate trouble.  The ironic and sad part is that many of our fears have little basis in reality and are often related to something that has not happened and probably will not happen and lives only [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fear, a damaging and corroding thread that can weave its way into and take over our lives, causes inordinate trouble.  The ironic and sad part is that many of our fears have little basis in reality and are often related to something that has not happened and probably will not happen and lives only in our heads.  No course in elementary school, junior or senior high school, or college prepares us to deal with our fears.  Rarely are parents astute enough to help us acquire the tools at home.  What then? A common &#8220;solution&#8221; is to become angry; cover the fears with anger and protect our fragile ego and scared little inner person.  Result? We lash out at whoever is in front of us, usually family or significant other.  We stay isolated and separate, never forming close relationships.  The undealt with fears and anger keep us self absorbed, obsessively ruminating and absent from our own lives.  Typical fears include: what do people think of me (none of my business), what will happen if I don&#8217;t take care of it? If I don&#8217;t do it no one will, or if they do, it won&#8217;t be done right.  What if I don&#8217;t make enough money? What if he thinks. . . , or does. . . ?or doesn&#8217;t. . . ? fear of rejection by anyone, including people we don&#8217;t know, fear of not being &#8220;okay&#8221;, fear of not being good enough. . . . and on and on.  Some realistic solutions are to look at what we are afraid of, even make a list in black and white, perhaps getting a clue (maybe not), as to where the fears came from and when they started intruding, uninvited, into our lives.  Then we must say them out loud, talk about them with a counselor, therapist, sponsor or mentor, or just a trusted friend.  Alone in our own heads, we human beings are often in bad company! Profound awakenings happen when two or more people talk openly and honestly.  Members of support groups (official or spontaneous) find that many have similar fears and no one is unique.  This alone does not abolish fear, but knowing you are not alone is a start.  If we have denied our fears, along with all of our other feelings for years, especially by covering them up with alcohol and other drugs, they seem insurmountable.  When the drugging stops, the years of accumulated fears surface, causing relapse for many.  Recovering people, those who have stopped using drugs, (yes, alcohol, too), find that to stay clean and sober, not to mention be happy without drugs, they have to deal effectively with fear, not just deny it.  The bottom line often becomes: we need more help than can be provided by other human beings or any drug, (including prescription antidepressants and antianxiety drugs).  Here it comes again. . .  the &#8220;G&#8221; word.  Yup.  Whatever your God concept, plug it in here and use it.  There is enormous joy in acknowledging that we are only human beings, not infinitely self-reliant, and can ask for help from a higher power.  We admit that we are human, not all powerful, and need help.  To do our part, we do what we think we are supposed to do.  We ask that our fears be removed and replaced with something useful.  Behaving in the most responsible way we can, perhaps spreading kindness and joy, and sometimes cookies, we leave the results to the universe (God?).  Where does sex fit in? Sex.  Important word.  Troublesome subject for many.  If anyone were to do a research study on recovering addicts, they would undoubtedly find that much distress and many, if not most relapses are around relationships.  Difficult for anyone, intimate relationships are especially problematic for alcoholics and addicts.  Healthy relationships require unselfishness, not a strong suit among addicts, even if the addiction is work, television, skiing or other sports, or something else &#8220;acceptable&#8221;.  To remain comfortable in our own skin after discontinuing drug use, we selfish human beings often find we have to restructure the sex and relationship areas of our lives.  It is tough to live with the constant discomfort of doing harm to ourselves and others with our selfish ways.  A common result is to go back to covering the pain with alcohol and drugs.  Many find that when they do stop the drugs, other behavior has to stop or change as well.  Cheating, dishonesty, blaming, inciting fear and jealousy, all leave a knot in our gut that used to be covered with chemicals.  More &#8220;advanced&#8221;, closer, healthier, happier relationships require even more changes.  Clean and sober people who have dealt with their fear of rejection, or decided to walk through it and not let it paralyze them, are able to participate in relationships, sexual or not, in increasingly unselfish ways, sharing themselves, accepting others as they are, encouraging growth and sincerely wanting the best for and appreciating the other person.  Bottom line? Healthy relationships are formed when people get out of themselves and care unselfishly for another.  ? </p>
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BY PROF. M. S. RAO, ACADEMIC GUIDE, ICFAI UNIVERSITY, INDIA&#13;
? Education is for improving the lives of others and for leaving your community and world better than you found it?, Martin Wright Edelman. &#13;
WHAT IS EDUCATION AND SOCIETY:&#13;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>REVOLUTION AND EVOLUTION IN EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM&#13;</p>
<p>BY PROF. M. S. RAO, ACADEMIC GUIDE, ICFAI UNIVERSITY, INDIA&#13;</p>
<p>? Education is for improving the lives of others and for leaving your community and world better than you found it?, Martin Wright Edelman. &#13;</p>
<p>WHAT IS EDUCATION AND SOCIETY:&#13;</p>
<p>Education provides the man with information, imagination, knowledge, ideas, values, ethics, reasoning and over all makes the man complete man.   Education brings refinement, adds to intelligence, and makes independent and confident man.   It is only the human beings who can get armed and equipped with education, which is missing in animals.   Education does not mean only reading and writing but also thinking, learning, reasoning, practical experiences and so on.  Education is a learning process from cradle to grave.   It is education that has brought out many changes in this world and transformed the entire civilization since time immemorial.   Ariel and Will Durant quoted,  ?Education is the transmission of civilization?. &#13;</p>
<p>The growth of society solely depends on the type of educational system adopted.   Education makes tremendous impact on the society.   The quality of the society depends on the quality of educational system implemented.   Some one correctly said, ?Better institutions are essential if we are to lead better lives?.   Right education makes the people build character, values, ethics, and prepares the society and country as a whole to catch up with the rest of the world.   Right education is the legacy or the gift, which we pass on to our next generations.   George Peabody said, ?Education: a debt due from present to future generations?. &#13;</p>
<p>EFFECTS OF EDUCATION ON SOCIETY:&#13;</p>
<p>Kerala is the first state in India, which attained cent per cent literacy.   It encouraged other states to contribute their best so as to attain total literacy.   Rather Kerala has become a model state and ideal state to be emulated by the rest of the country in providing importance to education. &#13;</p>
<p>No nation can develop without proper education.   And India too developed as a society and as a nation for the last 60 years.   India has now vast human resources and it has the thirst highest technical manpower in the world.   Although the effects of education in the society are tremendous, yet there are grey areas, which needs to be addressed.   India as a nation has developed politically, culturally, economically and socially but yet much needs to be focussed in a right direction. &#13;</p>
<p>?Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world?, said Nelson Mandela.   It is very obvious that no weapon is superior to education.   Apart from education, the influence of technology has brought out significant changes in the society.   If technology is used in the right direction and if it is coupled with education, we can expect miracles in the society as a whole. &#13;</p>
<p>EDUCATION AND EXPERIENCE:&#13;</p>
<p>?Education is when you read the fine print.   Experience is what you get if you don?t?, said Pete Seeger.   All human beings make many mistakes resulting in bitter and, of course, experience.   If an individual is educated, he knows the things because he reads the fine print.   He tends to make a few mistakes in his life.   Where as if an individual is not educated he tends to make more mistakes because he does not know the fine print.   An uneducated individual believes in trial or error method.   If he succeeds in his trial, he pursues or else he drops.   The uneducated man mostly believes in observation and practical knowledge.   The success rate is far higher in educated man rather in an uneducated man.   Education brings down the complexities in one?s life thereby making life easier, simpler and comfortable.   John Dewey rightly said, ?Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself?. &#13;</p>
<p>PROBLEMS IN PRESENT EDUCATION:&#13;</p>
<p>India is the second largest populated country in the world and unfortunately it is nowhere near in number qualitatively.   It may be again due to huge population and the type of administrative and political system we have.   There is stress on cramming, memory and mugging up.   One who mugs up and puts in examination paper is treated as a meritorious candidate.    It does not encourage imagination, creativity and originality.   There is no effective emphasis on practical aspects of life.   It is mostly beset with theoretical aspects and concepts, which any one can read even without going to institutions. &#13;</p>
<p>School children are loaded with many books and they find it highly stressful.   Education, in fact, should be filled with entertainment and fun so that student can discover the joy of learning, which is missing now.   Children find it horrible to go to schools because of too much of study.   Even at home children engage themselves so much on school homework.    Such things do not promote the relations between parent and child at home.   Inadequate infrastructure and inexperienced teaching staff are another bane.   Unfortunately, in India, both the primary and secondary level education is still struggling to survive qualitatively.   The views and opinions of the students are not being respected.   Students are always imposed whatever is there in the textbooks resulting in lack of imagination and innovation.   R W Emerson rightly said, &#8220;The secret in education lies in respecting the student?.   Only when students are respected and valued, they will try to think creatively, innovatively and out of the box.   Students should be provided with more freedom of thought. &#13;</p>
<p>It is very unfortunate that the teachers are not paid handsomely.   Best brains are pursuing other careers for monetary benefits and for better prospectus.   It is a pity that those who stick to teaching profession either due to their aptitude and taste and temperament towards teaching or because there is no other alternative (TINA factor) career. &#13;</p>
<p>Pandit Nehru?s policies and Kothari commission have brought some significant changes in the education but still there is no healthy and constructive impact.   There is commercialization of education, and a few fly by night operators entered into this sacred field and spoiled the standards. &#13;</p>
<p>TOOLS AND TECHNIQUES TO OVERCOME:&#13;</p>
<p>Teaching faculty must undergo regular training to update and upgrade their skills and abilities.   Encouraging regular workshops or seminars or courses related to teaching methodologies can enhance and sharpen their skills.   Such seminars will encourage the teaching faculty to exchange and gather more information. &#13;</p>
<p>?He who opens a school door, closes a prison?, Victor Hugo.   Children from the age of 6 to 14 are to be admitted in schools to provide education, as this is the best age to tune them for creating interest in education.   Child labor has been abolished but unfortunately it is not enforced effectively.   Children should be encouraged by various innovative ways and means to get into educational institutions. &#13;</p>
<p>Content and curriculum in the educational system needs to be addressed.   Streamlining the educational system on national basis from Kashmir to Kanyakumari will raise the educational standards.   There are disparities in the educational system in various states and efforts must be made to fill those gaps. &#13;</p>
<p>Govt.  levies 2 per cent educational cess and authorities must ensure that the funds go in a right direction to create strong educational infrastructure.   Nobody is against the levy of 2 per cent cess but the right application and mobilization of the resources will bring right results rapidly. &#13;</p>
<p>Focussing more on vocational education is the need of the hour.   Presently there is a vast gap between industry and academics.   Infosys has come out with ?Campus Connect? initiative to bridge the gap between the industry and academics and it is a step in right direction.   The corporate leaders have a vital role in funding the educational system.   They make money for themselves, pay handsome salaries to their employees and paying dividends to their shareholders and all the people who are involved in the business are earning one way or the other.   But what are they contributing for the education and society?  It is a well admitted fact that the helping hands are far better than praying lips.   Corporate, whether big or small, can wholeheartedly come forward to contribute their best for bringing Indian educational system on par with global standards. &#13;</p>
<p>It is essential to bring reforms in education from time to time as the tools and techniques involved in teaching are changing rapidly due to the influence of technology. &#13;</p>
<p>For professional qualifications like engineering, management, medicine, computers etc. , the students should be engaged in the practical education and project works from the first year itself.   Such activities will build more confidence in the minds of the students as they grasp the needs of the industry and thereby fine-tuning as per the industry expectations.   Fee structure needs to be rationalized and the deserving students should be provided with scholarships. &#13;</p>
<p>Providing interest free educational loans will help the deserving and poor students.   Also, it is desirable to encourage non-professional degree holders to get vocationalized.  ?Education is not filling a pail, but the lighting of a fire?, said William Butler Yeats.   Education must ignite the minds of the students and it must move the students from comfort zone to effective zone.   The students in the comfort zone will not achieve as much as that of in effective zone. &#13;</p>
<p>CONCLUSION:&#13;</p>
<p>There is a strong need to streamline the present educational system.   The problems in the educational system need to be addressed immediately.   Education should focus on ethical, social, vocational and academic aspects.   Education builds man and man in turn builds nation.   A strong nation can be built only when there is a strong character education.   Abraham Lincoln aptly said, ?Character is like a tree and reputation like its shadow.   The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing?.   Hence the essence of any education is the strong character.   The evolutionary approaches and revolutionary changes in the present educational system are the need of the hour.   We must build a nation where youngsters have a vision to think beyond their geographical boundaries.   There should be scope for the students to expand intellect, reinforce mind and make them to stand on their own feet. &#13;</p>
<p>MESSAGE:&#13;</p>
<p>Education and character are two sides of the same coin and one without the other is meaningless.  Money may come and go but it is the character that counts from beginning to the end of life.   Any individual when equipped with character education can excel in any part of the world.   To put it in the words of Martin Luther King Jr.  ?The function of education is to teach one to think intensively and to think critically  .  .  .  .  .  intelligence plus character   .  .  . .  That is the goal of true education?. &#13;</p>
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Everyone at some point has experienced an impasse in communication; those frustrating occasions when it all breaks down and people want to get up and walk out.  Just look at a sample of recent headlines: ?Peace Talks Breakdown? or ?Labor Negotiations at a Stalemate? or ?Negotiations Fail to Result in an Accord?.  When [...]]]></description>
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<p>Everyone at some point has experienced an impasse in communication; those frustrating occasions when it all breaks down and people want to get up and walk out.  Just look at a sample of recent headlines: ?Peace Talks Breakdown? or ?Labor Negotiations at a Stalemate? or ?Negotiations Fail to Result in an Accord?.  When the stakes are high and people are afraid they have something to loose communication becomes strained and people stop listening to one another.  Usually this is while claiming that the people on the other side of the table are actually the ones who are not doing the listening.  We get so concerned and fearful about getting other people to hear what we have to say, we become unwilling to hear what <u>they</u> have to say. </p>
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<p>Indeed, listening seems sometimes as if it is a rare happening among human beings. We can?t really <i>listen</i> to another person speaking if we?re preoccupied, or if we?re trying to decide what we?re going to say when the other stops talking, or if we?re debating about whether what is being spoken is true or relevant or agreeable. Listening, in other words, is being accessible and open to what is being said.</p>
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<p>At Landmark Education we contend that listening has an amazing power.  It gives life to what is being spoken. You might even say it is with the listener that both the speaker and what is spoken exist and come alive.  Think of how inspired and enlivened the elderly can become when you sit down and have an extended conversation with them.  Think about what happens when someone is really listening to you. Ever notice that you become funnier and more playful when someone laughs at your jokes? What about when a child recognizes that adults are actually listening to them? Their whole demeanor shifts.  In the programs of Landmark Education, you find yourself with a new ability to listen to others.  You find yourself inspired by the people you have in your life. When you truly listen to people you discover the best of what they have to offer.  </p>
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<p>Speaking, meanwhile, can be something more than talking, more than the exchange of symbols or information, more than saying what you really think. In speaking we can share ourselves; we can evoke experience in others. Speaking is where our ideas become clear and possible. It is where others are expanded by our time spent with them. It allows for the futures we create. Speaking lives in poetry, in the appreciation of another, in idle conversations that pass the time, in great theories and books that give rise to wonder and thought.<br />&#13;</p>
<p>.<br />&#13;</p>
<p>Speaking allows for &#8220;who&#8221; and &#8220;how&#8221; we &#8220;are&#8221; in the world. It is what gives voice to all that is possible in being human. In our ability to speak and share we have the ability to shape the world we live in.</p>
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<p>In the courses of Landmark Education you find that true communication is creation. It has the power to shape, determine, and alter the course and quality of our lives. It moves people. It generates experience in others. It not only delivers information to others, it actually transforms their ability to hear. True communication transforms both the speaker and listener.</p>
<p><a rel="nofollow" href="http://www.landmarkeducation.com">The Landmark Forum</a> suggests that what it is to be human has its own domain and that domain is one of language?of communication, of conversation. Through communication ?the realm of language, of conversation?each of us has complete access to ourselves, to others, to the very essence and possibility of what it means to be human.</p>
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<p>This is the essence of what Landmark Education is about and what The Landmark Forum provides.</p>
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<p>Copyright ? 2007 Landmark Education. All rights reserved.</p>
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